Welcome to THE

2026 
Couples Therapy Conference

Modern Relationships & The Promise of Psychotherapy

October 8-10, 2026
Live in San Francisco & Online!
Join the most widely anticipated gathering of the world’s most renowned relationship experts – designed for today’s couples therapists!
Ellyn
Bader
Ramani
Durvasula
Alexandra
Solomon
George
Faller
Janina
Fisher
Michelle
Frank
Wayne
Baker
Tammy
Nelson
More experts to be announced soon!
The Most Trusted Annual Gathering for Couples Therapists Returns!
Join our cast of carefully selected leaders who are shaping the future of couples therapy and sharing practical ideas you can use right away in your practice.
Each day, we’re focusing on key themes critical to your clinical success including:
  • Attachment: Managing Emotions and Trauma – Discover the attachment dynamics driving your clients’ struggles and gain tools to transform emotional overwhelm into connection.
  • Differentiation: Conflict, Polarizations and Unique Relationship Challenges - Learn practical frameworks for guiding couples through gridlock fueled by ADHD, autism, substance use patterns, or other relational differences—without losing the “me” or the “we.”
  • Sex, Intimacy & Affairs - Strengthen your clinical approach to sexual dynamics, rebuilding intimacy, and navigating the aftermath of affairs.
2026 Couples Therapy Conference

Modern Relationships & The Promise of Psychotherapy

October 8-10, 2026

Don't Delay! Our lowest price ever expires June 1, 2026

Join LIVE in

San Francisco, ca

INCLUDES:
3-day Live all-access pass
Meet face-to-face with the field's experts
Full access to the virtual platform
14-day unlimited replay access"
CE Credits are included

Join live

Virtually

INCLUDES:
3-day live virtual all-access pass
State-of-the-art online platform
Live interaction with the field's experts
14-day unlimited replay access"
CE Credits are included
Can't Attend live? Purchase the self study package here!
Plus, your registration is 100% risk-free!
Cancel anytime, for any reason, and get a complete refund
Thursday
Friday
Saturday

Thursday, October 7th

Attachment, Managing Emotions and Trauma


8:00 am – 9:15 am: Opening Keynote with Ellyn Bader

9:15 am – 9:35 am: MORNING BREAK

9:35 am – 11:35 am: Clinical Workshop 1 with Wayne Baker

11:35 am – 12:55 pm: LUNCH BREAK

12:55 pm – 2:55 pm: Clinical Workshop 2 with George Faller

2:55 pm – 3:15 pm: AFTERNOON BREAK

3:15 PM – 5:15 PM: Clinical Workshop 3 with Janina Fisher

5:15 PM: Join us in the exhibit hall for after hours fun!

Friday, October 9th

Differentiation: Conflict, Polarizations and Unique Relationship Challenges


8:00 am – 9:15 am: Opening Keynote with Ramani Durvasula

9:15 am – 9:35 am: MORNING BREAK

9:35 am – 11:35 am: Clinical Workshop 1 TBD

11:35 am – 12:55 pm: LUNCH BREAK

12:55 pm – 2:55 pm: Clinical Workshop 2 with Michelle Frank

2:55 pm – 3:15 pm: AFTERNOON BREAK

3:15 PM – 5:15 PM: Clinical Workshop 3 with Ellyn Bader & Special Guest

5:15 PM: Join us in the exhibit hall for after hours fun!

Saturday, October 8th

Sex, Intimacy & Affairs 


8:00 am – 9:15 am: Opening Keynote with Tammy Nelson

9:15 am – 9:35 am: MORNING BREAK

9:35 am – 11:35 am: Clinical Workshop 1 with Alexandra Solomon

11:35 am: Closing

Couples Therapy Conference Faculty

The Leading Relationship Experts
Ellyn 
Bader
PhD
Couples Therapy Pioneer, Developmental Model Founder & This Years Conference Host
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Ellyn Bader
Couples Therapy Pioneer, Developmental Model Founder & This Years Conference Host

Ellyn Bader, PhD, is in private practice and is Co-Director of The Couples Institute in Menlo Park, California. Over the past 25 years she has conducted professional training programs in couples therapy and has trained therapists throughout the United States as well as Europe, Asia, South America, and Australia. She is a past president of the International Transactional Analysis Association and a recipient of the Clark Vincent Award for an outstanding literary contribution to the field of marital therapy from the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists. Dr. Bader is frequently invited to speak at national and international conferences. She and her husband, Peter Pearson, Ph.D., coauthored the books, “In Quest of the Mythical Mate: A Developmental Approach to Diagnosis and Treatment in Couples Therapy” (Brunner/Mazel) and “Tell Me No Lies: How to Face the Truth and Build an Honest Marriage” (St. Martin’s Press).

Speaker Disclosures:
Financial: Ellyn Bader is the director of The Couples Institute and receives compensation as a consultant. She receives royalties as a published author. Ellyn Bader receives a speaking honorarium and recording royalties from PESI, Inc. She has no relevant financial relationships with ineligible organizations.
Non-financial: Ellyn Bader is a member of the American Psychological Association, the International Transactional Analysis Association, and the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists.

Ramani 
Durvasula
PhD
The World's Most Widely Recognized Narcissism Expert
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Ramani Durvasula
The World's Most Widely Recognized Narcissism Expert

Ramani Durvasula, PhD is a psychologist and the founder of LUNA Education, Training and Consulting, LLC. She’s professor emerita of psychology at California State University Los Angeles and the author of multiple books, including Don’t You Know Who I Am: How to Stay Sane in the Era of NarcissismEntitlement and Incivility and Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship With a Narcissist.

Speaker Disclosures:

Financial: Ramani Durvasula is the founder and CEO of LUNA Education, Training, and Consulting. She maintains a private practice and has employment relationships with the California State University Los Angeles and the University of Johannesburg. Ramani Durvasula receives royalties as a published author. She receives a speaking honorarium and recording royalties from Psychotherapy Networker and PESI, Inc. She has no relevant financial relationships with ineligible organizations.

Non-financial: Ramani Durvasula is an associate editor for Behavioral Medicine and a consulting editor for Psychology of Women Quarterly and Cultural Diversity and Ethnic Minority Mental Health. She is an ad hoc reviewer for the Journal of Clinical and Experimental NeuropsychologyAIDS and Behavior, and Sex Roles: A Journal of Research. Ramani Durvasula is a member of the American Psychological Association, the Association for Psychological Science Society for Behavioral Medicine, and the International Association of Applied Psychology.

Alexandra 
Solomon
PhD
Author Loving Bravely and Host of Re-Imagining Love
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Alexandra Solomon, PhD
Author Loving Bravely and Host of Re-Imagining Love

Dr. Alexandra H. Solomon is internationally recognized as one of today’s most trusted voices in the world of relationships, and her framework for Relational Self-Awareness has reached millions of people around the globe. A couple therapist, speaker, author, and professor, Dr. Alexandra is passionate about translating cutting-edge research and clinical wisdom into practical tools people can use to bring awareness, curiosity, and authenticity to their relationships.

She is a clinician educator and a frequent contributor to academic journals, and she translates her academic and therapeutic experience to the public through her popular Instagram page, which has garnered a quarter of a million followers. She is an adjunct professor in the School of Education and Social Policy at Northwestern University, and she is the face of MasterClass In Practice. She is a licensed clinical psychologist, who works with individuals and couples in private practice.

Her hit podcast, Reimagining Love, reaches thousands of listeners across the globe each week and features deep dives into complex relationship dynamics as well as conversations with high-profile guests from the worlds of therapy, academia, and pop culture. She is the award-winning author of three bestselling books: Love Every DayLoving Bravely, and Taking Sexy Back. Her work has been covered by outlets including NPR, TODAY, New York Times, Scientific American, and the Oprah Winfrey Network.

Financial Disclosures:

Financial: Dr. Alexandra Solomon maintains a private practice and has an employment relationship with Northwestern University. She receives royalties as a published author. Dr. Solomon receives a speaking honorarium and recording royalties from Psychotherapy Networker and PESI, Inc. She is an instructor for MasterClass. She teaches for the Modern Sex Therapy Institute (MSTI) and the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute (ISTI). She has no relevant financial relationships with ineligible organizations.
Non-financial: Dr. Alexandra Solomon is a thought leader for Heleo and an ambassador for The Relationship School. She is an ad hoc for several peer review journals, for a complete list contact PESI, Inc. Dr. Solomon is a member of the American Psychological Association (APA).

George 
Faller
LMFT
President, NY Center for Emotionally Focused Therapy
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George Faller, LMFT
President, NY Center for Emotionally Focused Therapy

George Faller, MS, LMFT, Prior to a career in the field of mental health, George Faller, MS, LMFT spent 20 years as a NYC Firefighter and NYC Police Officer. His experience as a FDNY Peer Counselor, particularly following the events of 9/11, sparked his passion to help those impacted by trauma.

He is a certified trainer/supervisor/therapist in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and founder of the New York Center for Emotionally Focused therapy where he serves as president. He is a supervisor with the American Association for Marriage & Family Therapy (AAMFT) and teaches classes at the Ackerman Institute for the Family in Manhattan. He is a licensed marriage & family therapist currently practicing in Connecticut and New York. George is the director of training at the Greenwich Center for Hope & Renewal in Connecticut and is on board of the Porter Cason Institute at Tulane University in New Orleans.

George brings a unique and varied experience to his practice. Whether he is providing marriage therapy to Wall Street executives, leading a conference for the United States Military or equipping therapists from around the globe, his ability to inspire is far-reaching. George is also committed to bringing EFT to underprivileged populations and pushing the leading edge of effective therapy.

George is the coauthor of the books True Connection, Sacred Stress, and Emotionally Focused Family Therapy and cohost of podcast Foreplay Radio. For more information go to www.georgefaller.com and checkout www.successinvulnerability.com

Speaker Disclosures:
Financial: George Faller is the Director of Training for the Center For Hope & Renewal, and the President of the New York Center for Emotionally Focused Therapy. He is the co-host of the ForePlay Radio Podcast, leader of Success in Vulnerability, and adjunct professor at the Ackerman Institute for the Family. George receives a speaking honorarium and recording royalties from PESI, Inc. He has no relevant financial relationships with ineligible organizations.
Non-financial: George Faller has no relevant non-financial relationships.

Janina 
Fisher
PhD
Renowned Trauma Expert and Author
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Janina Fisher
Renowned Trauma Expert and Author

Janina Fisher, PhD, is a licensed clinical psychologist and former instructor at The Trauma Center, a research and treatment center founded by Bessel van der Kolk. Known as an expert on the treatment of trauma, Dr. Fisher has also been treating individuals, couples, and families since 1980.

She is past president of the New England Society for the Treatment of Trauma and Dissociation, an EMDR International Association Credit Provider, Assistant Educational Director of the Sensorimotor Psychotherapy Institute, and a former Instructor, at Harvard Medical School. Dr. Fisher lectures and teaches nationally and internationally on topics related to the integration of the neurobiological research and newer trauma treatment paradigms into traditional therapeutic modalities.

She is co-author with Pat Ogden of Sensorimotor Psychotherapy: Interventions for Attachment and Trauma (2015) and author of Healing the Fragmented Selves of Trauma Survivors: Overcoming Internal Self-Alienation (2017) and the forthcoming book, Working with the Neurobiological Legacy of Trauma (in press).

Speaker Disclosures:
Financial: Dr. Janina Fisher is an international expert and consultant on Trauma and Dissociation. She is a consultant for Khiron House Clinics and the Massachusetts Department of MH Restraint and Seclusion Initiative. Dr. Fisher receives royalties as a published author. She receives a speaking honorarium, recording royalties and book royalties from Psychotherapy Networker and PESI, Inc. Dr. Fisher has no relevant financial relationships with ineligible organizations.
Non-financial: Dr. Janina Fisher is on the advisory board for the Trauma Research Foundation. She is a patron of the Bowlby Center.

 

Michelle 
Frank
PsyD
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Michelle Frank

Dr. Michelle Dougher Frank is a clinical psychologist currently practicing at Enrich Relationship Center of Colorado in the Denver-metro area. She specializes in diagnosing and treating ADHD, particularly in women. She is co-author, along with Sari Solden, MS, of the book A Radical Guide for Women with ADHD: Embrace Neurodiversity, Live Boldly, and Break Through Barriers. In addition to individual clinical work, Dr. Frank Provides Gottman Method Couples’ Therapy to couples impacted by ADHD. With a passion for advocacy, outreach, and education, Dr. Frank regularly contributes to national ADHD conferences and support programs. Dr. Frank is former vice president of ADDA – an international nonprofit organization supporting adults with ADHD. She is a member of APSARD – The American Professional Society of ADHD and Related Disorders. She graduated from the Chicago School of Professional Psychology and Marquette University.

Speaker Disclosures:
Financial: Michelle Dougher Frank has an employment relationship with Enrich Relationship Center of Colorado and is a professional expert contributor with Understood.org. She receives royalties as a published author. Michelle Dougher Frank receives a speaking honorarium and recording royalties from Psychotherapy Networker and PESI, Inc. She has no relevant financial relationships with ineligible organizations.
Non-financial: Michelle Dougher Frank is a member of the Attention Deficit Disorder Association, the Children and Adults with ADHD, and the American Professional Society of ADHD & Related Disorders.

Wayne 
Baker
LPC
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Wayne Baker

Wayne Baker, LPC, is a psychotherapist with over 20 years of experience specializing in infidelity recovery and betrayal trauma. He integrates Internal Family Systems, and trauma-informed care to help both betrayed and unfaithful partners heal, restore relational safety, and create authentic connections. Wayne is a sought-after speaker and course developer known for blending clinical expertise with compassion and clarity. His work emphasizes the five pillars of betrayal trauma recovery – Disclosure, Empathy, Grieving, Forgiveness, and Co-creation – and he is committed to training clinicians in IFS-informed approaches to relational healing.

Speaker Disclosures:
Financial: Wayne Baker maintains a private practice. He receives a speaking honorarium from PESI, Inc. He has no relevant financial relationships with ineligible organizations.
Non-financial: Wayne Baker is a member of the EMDR International Association, American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists, and American Psychological Association.

Tammy 
Nelson
PhD, CSCT
Founder of The Integrative Sex Therapy Institute
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Tammy Nelson, PhD, CSCT
Founder of The Integrative Sex Therapy Institute

Tammy Nelson, PhD, is an internationally acclaimed psychotherapist, Board Certified Sexologist, Certified Sex Therapist, and Certified Imago Relationship Therapist. She has been a therapist for almost 30 years and is the executive director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute. She started the institute to develop courses for psychotherapists as the need grew for certified, integrated postgraduate sex and couple’s therapists in a growing field of mental health consumers who need more complex interventions for their relationship needs.

Dr. Tammy is a TEDx speaker, Psychotherapy Networker Symposium speaker and the author of several books, including Getting the Sex You Want: Shed Your Inhibitions and Reach New Heights of Passion Together (Quiver, 2008) and the best-selling The New Monogamy: Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity (New Harbinger, 2013), as well as When You’re the One Who Cheats: Ten Things You Need to Know (RL Publishing Corp., 2019) and the upcoming Integrative Sex and Couples Therapy (PESI, 2020).

She has been a featured expert in New York Times Magazine, Washington Post, Wall Street Journal, CNN, Rolling Stone Magazine, TIME Magazine, Redbook, Glamour, The Sun, and The London Times. She is the host of a popular podcast on iTunes, "The Trouble with Sex", and writes for the Huffington Post, YourTango, ThriveGlobal, and medium.com. Dr. Tammy can be followed on her blog, www.drtammynelson.com/blog.

Speaker Disclosures:
Financial: Dr. Tammy Nelson maintains a private practice and is executive director and primary faculty at Integrated Sex Therapy Training Institute (ISTI) and has an employment relationship with Daybreak University. She receives a speaking honorarium and recording royalties from PESI, Inc., and she additionally receives royalties from New Harbinger and Sounds True. She is a paid consultant for Evergreen Certifications. Dr. Nelson has no relevant financial relationships with ineligible organizations.
Non-financial: Dr. Tammy Nelson serves on the board of advisors for the World Association of Sex Coaches. She is a member of the American Art Therapy Association, American Association of Sex Educators, Sex Counselors, and Sex Therapists (AASECT), American Comprehensive Energy Psychology Association (ACEP), American Counseling Association, American Family Therapy Academy, American Family Therapy Association (AFTA), American Psychological, Association (APA), Connecticut Counselors, Imago Relationships International Association of Professional and Certified Therapists, International Board of Sexologists, International Institute for Sexuality and Human Development, Nonfiction Authors Association, Society Scientific Study Sexuality (SSSS), and the Society for Sex Therapy and Research (SSTAR).

2026 Couples Therapy Conference

Modern Relationships & The Promise of Psychotherapy

October 8-10, 2026

Don't Delay! Our lowest price ever expires June 1, 2026

Join LIVE in

San Francisco, ca

INCLUDES:
3-day Live all-access pass
Meet face-to-face with the field's experts
Full access to the virtual platform
14-day unlimited replay access"
CE Credits are included

Join live

Virtually

INCLUDES:
3-day live virtual all-access pass
State-of-the-art online platform
Live interaction with the field's experts
14-day unlimited replay access"
CE Credits are included
Can't Attend live? Purchase the self study package here!
Plus, your registration is 100% risk-free!
Cancel anytime, for any reason, and get a complete refund
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Get the latest insights from

  • The Developmental Model
  • Gottman Method
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
  • Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS)
  • Relational Self-Awareness (RSA)
  • Antagonism‑Informed Approach (AIA)
  • Integrative Sex & Couples Therapy
  • Cognitive and Mindfulness Based Approaches

On today's most important issues

  • Infidelity and Recovery
  • Traumatic Stress
  • Conflict and Communication
  • ADHD and Neurodivergence
  • Narcissism and Antagonistic Relationships
  • Sex and Intimacy
  • Addictions
  • Victim Mentalities

Location

Hyatt Regency San Francisco Downtown SOMA
  • 50 Third Street, San Francisco, CA 94103
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The 2026 Couples Therapy Conference is taking place at the Hyatt Regency San Francisco SOMA.  We have discounted rooms available on a first-come, first-serve basis starting at $209 per night!

In SoMa, San Francisco’s arts district, the city’s cutting-edge creative scene is alive and well. Here, California’s contemporary art museums sit shoulder to shoulder with the renowned Yerba Buena Center for the Arts, SF Museum of Modern Art (SFMOMA), fine dining restaurants and artisanal coffee shops. Located on the south of Market Street, Hyatt Regency San Francisco Downtown SoMa is a sophisticated destination hotel close to Salesforce Tower, the Moscone Center and some of the city’s most innovative and stimulating sights. 

Reserve your room now at the exclusive conference hotel!

Frequently Asked Questions

YES, All days will be presented live in-person & online by our experts including opportunities to get your questions answered!
YES! Most sessions will include live Q&A in the last section of the training.
If you register as a live attendee, you can receive credit for any of the workshops you actually attend live. The 14-day on demand replay are for review only and not eligible for LIVE CE credits.

If you would like CE credit for sessions you couldn’t attend live, simply upgrade to the recording package at registration. You’ll get lifetime access to the entire conference and have the ability to watch each session at any time for self-study credit after the conference.

If you do not plan to attend any of the live conference, you can simply purchase the recording package on this page and earn self-study CE credits on each workshop in that package at any time in the future.
After the conference we’ll add the entire conference into your learning portal where you’ll have lifetime access to each workshop. This package comes with self-study CE credits. Simply watch the workshop you’d like, take the short post-test, and you’ll receive a certificate based on your license. This recording package will be delivered to your learning portal in 4-6 weeks after the event.
This is a great conference for any practicing mental health professional if you’re interested in being able to better understand relationships and how to help your clients improve them.
If you purchased a live in-person or virtual registration, we’ll send you the information you need to complete for credit and receive a certificate based on your license eligibility.

If you purchase the recording package, you’ll be able to watch each session recording, take a brief post-test, and receive a certificate based on your license eligibility.
Reach out to support@pesi.com for questions. We’re happy to help!

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